I'm just going to assume that, like all Ken dolls, there is no noticeable difference among my opposite gender. I've come to assumptions now; that's what it's all boiled down to. "Can I meet you?" "Can I have your phone number?" "Can we text?" "Ya like 'em big?"
I just want to talk to someone nice who isn't trying to get to know me personally. I'm not looking for a one-night stand or anything serious. I do not want a relationship - how many times does that need to be said? Are they stupid? I just want to send an email, get an email, send an email, get an email; and put some damn use to my account. Why is it always about sex, boobs, butts, and thighs with these pigs?
I want a friend. Someone decent. Someone respectful. Someone who clearly will have to be a female. I'm just getting so tired of guys.
I'm not looking for a female friend so I can talk about shoes, or hair, or makeup. That shit's boring. I want to talk about how much guys piss us both off, which movies and shows we like, our bucket lists, the universe - things that matter, pun not intended; that was just a neat coincidence.
I am not looking for a booty call. I am not looking for someone whose only idea of a good time is fooling around. I have no interest in any of that. And all I want is to meet someone who feels the exact same way.
I just want to talk to someone nice who isn't trying to get to know me personally. I'm not looking for a one-night stand or anything serious. I do not want a relationship - how many times does that need to be said? Are they stupid? I just want to send an email, get an email, send an email, get an email; and put some damn use to my account. Why is it always about sex, boobs, butts, and thighs with these pigs?
I want a friend. Someone decent. Someone respectful. Someone who clearly will have to be a female. I'm just getting so tired of guys.
I'm not looking for a female friend so I can talk about shoes, or hair, or makeup. That shit's boring. I want to talk about how much guys piss us both off, which movies and shows we like, our bucket lists, the universe - things that matter, pun not intended; that was just a neat coincidence.
I am not looking for a booty call. I am not looking for someone whose only idea of a good time is fooling around. I have no interest in any of that. And all I want is to meet someone who feels the exact same way.
You and I sound a lot alike!
ReplyDeleteBeen there, got sick and tired of that. You know me — I basically only started accounts on things like MyYearbook so I could meet and talk to people I didn't have to actually TALK to. And I'll be honest, I was always kind of flattered when a guy sent me a friend request. I *did* want a relationship, and so harmless, impersonal chat seemed like a good way to start figuring out what I wanted...
And then something like a hundred guys (over the years, not all at once, lol) ended up asking me for pictures or telling me they only talked to girls who liked dirty chat, so of course I was annoyed.
I was at the end of my rope when Geoff sent me a friend request. Considered clicking the "reject" button. Then I reconsidered. Thought, "This guy's a lot older than most of the idiots who've been sending me messages. He's probably a lot nicer than they are."
Not even two years later, I moved in with him. That was 3 years and 8 months ago. And it all started with a friend request five years (and 3 months) ago!
I guess the point of all this babble is, don't give up. You might end up making a great friend next time you try. And now that you know what you want (and don't want) you can weed people out that much quicker, without dealing with their whiny demands for nude pictures and awkward questions.
Let's e-mail — I love talking about stupid guys and movies. I don't want to think about a bucket list yet (too early), and the universe mostly pisses me off, but otherwise talking to you sounds like fun :D
I've spoken to one older guy. You would think he'd be mature, but no, it was just Dwayne. I was such a fool back then. :'(
DeleteI just cannot meet people I met on a website. I can't defend myself, and I can't trust them. I don't know who they are or what they think. I have no choice but to say no. I won't say yes until I learn karate and gain telepathic abilities! Keep dreaming, lol :D
I think about bucket lists because I would rather think too soon than too late. It's depressing, but it needs to be thought of. And the sooner it's out of the way, the better.
Yes, email, email!! Goody!! :D
You were NOT a fool. He was one of our parents' friends. You were 13 or 14, right? None of the blame is yours. He shouldn't have ever gotten your e-mail address, and Mom and Dad should've seen the warning signs as soon as he and his wife wanted to take you to the beach with them.
DeleteI find it easier to deal with people through text. Face-to-face, I stutter and my voice trails off and I get these embarrassing facial twitches so I look and sound like a spaz. I hate it, I really hate it, but that's why I prefer to socialize through my fingers (I mean typing, not . . . weird stuff).
Telepathic abilities would be awesome for everything. Unless you have a lot of secrets and accidentally send them to other people. :D
Yes, that would be awkward. But at night, when I'm lying awake, I dream of what I would like to happen, no matter how supernatural or impossible. And in one of my fantasies, I'm sending telepathic messages to a confused person, whose friends think she's losing her mind. :D
DeleteI don't even know why he had my email address. I don't recall giving it to him. I just remember their cats, and the MSN conversations where he was so inappropriate; and of course Joe calling the police on him. Did you know he was a registered pedophile? I sort of regret not going to court when I had the chance.
I didn't know that, but yeesh!
DeleteI was never brave enough to deal with court, either. Not that Mom took me all that seriously when I told her what'd happened to me. So I guess it's good we can daydream all we want about things we wished had happened :)
I've thought telekinesis would be cool, too. Imagine giving someone a wedgie from twenty feet away! They'd never know it was you! :D
That would be awesome. There are so many people I just want to embarrass without seriously harming. Like with a wedgie, but maybe something less gross for me.
DeleteWhat happened to you? Also Dwayne?
No...a few months ago, I told you about the teachers and students...?
DeleteOh, right. ^_^ Sorry. I'm pretty forgetful...Sometimes I don't remember names like, say, Edith. :S
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